Just Like That

Ever did I feel if not this, what would the life have been? Say I did not have two hands and all my pals had em, how would it have been?

I have been trying to place myself in the shoes of others, trying to feel what they might be feeling. But I guess each time I did that, I forgot one basic thing. Every time the foot was mine, the skin was mine, the brain was mine, the interpretation was always mine and I forgot that the individual whose shoes I am trying to wear is an INDIVIDUAL and rather than judging I should learn to accept.

There can be no empathy its always your feeling in that situation might help you to understand but rarely fruitful in making a guess of what it means to that person. I always have an explanation for what I am doing. Same is true for every one else.

May be a life without hands is better because we don't compare, we accept and we appreciate the life which is reflected in everything that is experienced.